Frequently Asked Questions

  • I’m based in Los Angeles, and when at home, I’m available for dates throughout Southern California. I’m happy to come see you from Santa Barbara to San Diego, and am especially hoping to spend time getting to know Orange County a little better with those who love it.

  • I am passport ready, and available worldwide. I frequently visit New York and San Francisco, and can often be convinced to arrange a tour around a well-put together date in one of those cities. I love spending time in Honolulu, and am always looking for reasons to visit Hawai’i. Get in touch if you’d like to be one of them, or to be put on my mailing list for visits to any of the above cities.

    Outside of that, my FMTY rates are straightforward, to make it easy to travel to, or with you. I’m an easygoing and adventurous travel partner, and greatly enjoy the relaxed, intimate nature of a shared getaway.

    Have a conference coming up? I offer bespoke rates for conference travel where we spend designated amounts of time together across multiple days, inquire for more info.

  • You can show up well-groomed and minty fresh, and map out parking, traffic, etc. ahead of time. If you’d like to bring a small token of affection, or have refreshments waiting for us, my preferences are listed here.

    Please be sure to present my rate at the beginning of our date, without me having to ask. If we are in public, it should be stowed away in a card, book, or small gift bag. And most of all, enjoy the excitement! I’m anticipating it just as much as you are.

  • I do see couples, and I take it as a huge compliment. I find that a date minimum of three hours is ideal to keep things feeling unrushed, and give us all time to unwind, enjoy, and spoil each other.

  • I’m happy to invite a friend (or two) along! My preference tends to be people I already have relationships with, or have interacted with on social media, and gotten a feel for. I suggest a booking of at least two hours for this type of endeavor. Please note that the gentlemanly thing to do is always to match the higher rate.

  • My style is classic and always appropriate for the setting, and I enjoy styling myself for our date. I’m happy to receive broad suggestions if they feel necessary, like asking me to dress casually, wear black, or requesting heels or flats. Outside of that, it’s my belief that an outfit request should be always be accompanied by the gifted outfit. If you’d like me to add something to my wishlist for this purpose, please inquire.

  • No, thank you! As they say, a lady never tells. I’m a private person and ask that all details of our time together be kept between us. Please refrain from posting about me in any public forum to avoid being widely blacklisted.

    However, if you feel blown away by our time together and would like to offer to write me a testimonial, I would be delighted to accept one privately for future use if we’ve seen each other multiple times. Feel free to touch base with me about this.